CELEBRATING GAY PRIDE IN NYC

I attended my first Gay Pride in New York City on June 28, 2009, the year that the LGBTQ community commemorated the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. It was a typical hot summer day on Hudson Street in the Village. I was scared, excited, worried and surprised all at once because though I had… Read more »

I’m Getting Too Old for This!

*Note – this submission was submitted by the sexually smarter and CFLE facebook page admin. Why? After talking to Robin about her post “Young Sexpots” – I was reminded of a similar instance my mom faced and wanted to share – plus after doing the editing, posting, linking and typing things like “coordination yimmlefish” to… Read more »

Young Sexpots: All My Single Girls?

by Robin Slaw I’ve been pondering the nature of sexuality lately, and in particular what that means to me as the mother of three adolescents. Recently, one of my daughters brought her laptop over to show me a video of some eight- and nine-year-old girls dancing to “Single Ladies (Put A Ring on It)” by… Read more »

Is It Perfectly Normal? Shhhhh! We’re Speaking of Sex!

Reporting Live from Sweden: Bill Taverner (Where in the World is Bill Taverner?)On Sunday I visited a local Swedish library in search of some free wi fi. It was difficult to find an open table where I could work, since the library was packed. I was surprised, because it was a Sunday. Now that I… Read more »

We Can’t Wish Away Teen Sex!

By Bill Taverner I am in Stockholm, Sweden for the next week, joining Dr. Julie Wilgen, who is here on sabbatical from the University of Delaware, to study sex ed. Both Dr. Wilgen and I were asked by the Swedish Association for Sexuality Education to give a 2-hour lecture on Sex Ed in America. (2… Read more »

My Mother’s Day Gift to Me and My Sweet Girl

By Colleen Lord “If I could just get rid of this pooch.” This is me, circa 1990. It’s after a sleepover with my two best friends who I’ve known forever. My fourteen-year-old self is analyzing my body in the mirror. I was 100 pounds sopping wet at the time, yet that pooch was a huge… Read more »

Sex Education Comes of Age at The CSE!

By Peggy Brick By creating, publishing and promoting the teaching manual, Older, Wiser, Sexually Smarter: 30 Sex Ed Lessons for Adults Only, The Center for Sex Education (CSE) has taken the lead in recognizing the widely unrecognized need for sexuality education for people in mid and later life. While the sexuality education field has long professed… Read more »

Condom Compliance: Why Aren’t All the Adults Doing It?

by Robin Slaw, Sexual Health Educator/Trainer (In this article on condom compliance – Robin touches on the necessity of educating youth on the importance of condoms to and some reasons adults may not use them as well as other issues. Condoms are critical to preventing STIs so this article is perfectly timed to coordinate with… Read more »

Juneau Sex Ed is a Crime?

By Bill Taverner I’ve never been one to want to get arrested. Sure, I’ve spoken my mind when it comes to sexuality education. I’ve written opinion pieces, and I’ve been fortunate to speak to Congress twice, each time extolling the virtues of comprehensive sex ed, while enumerating the problems with abstinence-only-until-marriage education. But, no, I’ve… Read more »

Thinking About Sex (Ed) All the Time: Wearing My Work Hat Home

  by Colleen Lord, CSE Staff   Thank Heavens for Robie Harris (and Bill Taverner!)     The Center for Sex Education (CSE)’s fearless leader Bill Taverner recently made a comment at our staff meeting about how we educators think about sex ed all the time, even on our “off” time. “Bill, I don’t know about… Read more »

Say What?: Sex Slang Goes Viral

by Robin Slaw, Sexual Health Educator/Trainer, The Center for Family Life Education As a Sexual Health Educator/Trainer for the CFLE, I travel across northern New Jersey, presenting on a variety of topics. I am always glad to have the opportunity to interact with students or adults when I go to schools or health fairs and… Read more »

WHAT’S UP? WHAT’S GOING DOWN? FACTS ABOUT MASTURBATION*

As promised, here are the answers to the quiz posted earlier this week! How many did you get right? 1. Many infants and young children discover that touching their genitals feels good.TRUE. Masturbation, or self-pleasuring (as the behavior is generally referred to in childhood), is common throughout childhood, beginning to occur from the age of… Read more »

Massa-bation in the Colbert Nation

By Bill Taverner Last night on The Colbert Report, comedian Stephen Colbert provided some much needed comic relief to the endless news coverage of the story of U.S. Representative Eric Massa (NY) and his inappropriate…um…“tickling” behavior. Colbert reported on the tongue-lashing U.S. Representative Patrick Kennedy (RI) gave the media for its preoccupation with the story,… Read more »

Having “The Talk”, Role Reversal: A Sex Talk With my Dad

by Colleen Lord, Education Manager for Union County, CFLE “I know you’re not ready yet. At least, I hope you’re not. But when you are ready to have sex, I really hope you’ll come to me first.” My dad and I are sitting at his dining room table for this “less-than-comfortable” conversation. One might think… Read more »

Yes, Virginia, There Is Discrimination

Finding Teachable Moments in the Newsby Bill Taverner, CFLE Director A. “I’m sorry, sir, we can’t hire you. Your skin is just too dark.” B. “I’m sorry, ma’am, we can’t hire you. You’re in a wheelchair and all our professors are able-bodied. C. “Your resume is very impressive, but you’re just too darn old. We’re… Read more »

SEX: Exciting New Technologies, Same Old Stereotypes

By Bill Taverner, Director CFLE This past weekend I attended the Sex::Tech conference in San Francisco, CA. This was one of the more fascinating conferences I’ve attended in my professional life – one in which all things sexual merged with the latest and greatest developments in technology. I learned more than I ever knew about… Read more »

Tiger Woods Bogeyed His Televised Apology

The news of the day appears to be critical evaluations of an apology given by golf star Tiger Woods for his sexual infidelity. Newspapers and blogs ask, ”Is Tiger out of the rough?” as they reflect on his ”bad outing,” musing that his wife ”still holds the score card.” Who knew we could have such… Read more »